Healing Legacy Burdens: Intergenerational Trauma, IFS, and Self-Compassion

with Deran Young, LCSW, Capt/USAF (retired)

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What you'll learn

  • Explore how cultural and collective legacy burdens, such as internalized racism, cishet patriarchy, ageism, and classism, impact mental and spiritual well-being, and learn to identify these burdens within yourself and others for deeper healing.
  • Understand the dynamics of systemic oppression, including racism, cishet patriarchy, ageism, poverty, and classism, and explore the intersectionality of these issues and their cumulative impact on a sense of belonging and spiritual well-being.
  • Identify common stuck points, including negative beliefs, attitudes, and external constraints faced by historically marginalized populations, and develop strategies rooted in self-compassion and cross-cultural awareness to support healing.

About the speakers

Deran Young, LCSW, Capt/USAF (retired)

Deran Young, LCSW, Capt/USAF (retired) is a licensed therapist specializing in racial trauma and legacy burdens. She is also a co-author of the New York Times best-seller You Are Your Best Thing, a retired military officer, and founder of Black Therapists Rock. Black Therapists Rock is a non profit organization with a network of over 30,000 mental health professionals committed to reducing the psychological impact of systemic oppression and intergenerational trauma. Deran obtained her social work degree from University of Texas, where she studied abroad in Ghana, West Africa for two semesters creating a high school counseling center for under-resourced students. She has visited over 37 different countries and her clinical experience spans across four different continents. Her passion for culture and people has led her to become a highly sought after diversity and inclusion consultant working with companies like BBERG, Facebook, Linked In, and YWCA. She resides in the Washington, DC area with her young son.

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  • I think it is a wonderful presentation, and I find Deran to be really compelling. But the CNN study part of the presentation was a mistake from my perspective. The test polarizes from the beginning- the adults start by telling the children there are bad children, mean children , etc. they don’t ask are there mean children?, they ask who is the mean child? who is the bad child? This forces the child being questioned to choose between the images which they are told, by adults, contain bad, mean, dumb people etc.
    This isn’t a study that really looks into the situation with complexity. The adults questions have already made the children choose polarization. The study actually hurts the kids, influencing them make them choose, but only after they are told bad and good are here and present, in black and white if you will, and to choose between the existing bad , mean , dumb etc.
    It even confuses one boy who asks with disbelief, “bad child? ”
    No one asks, for example, is there a mean child? Is there a smart child? it only tells the child being questioned that these are pictures of kids faces, and one kid is stupid, who is the dumb kid?, really? asking “who is the dumb one?” This is programming the answers.
    Neuroscientists will tell us that we choose what is familiar as a part of our deepest wiring for connection, community and trust building. It isn’t the same as racism in society. I realize legacy burden and all the sexism, racism, patriarchy and classism are alive and well on planet earth, but studies like these are no help in my opinion. The questions accentuate polarization for the children. That is what the kids being questioned were taught, to polarize. Why?

  • Deran is incredibly articulate and specific around the concept of legacy burdens. A vibrant presentation! I was highly interested drawn in by her enthusiasm for the topic. In my spiritual CAGS program we discussed inherited wounds and trauma. Deran’s presentation shows not only the impact on us but the possibility of healing for all.

  • I had to come back to note just how much I got out of this talk. The concept of the four Legacy Burdens–Racism, Sexism (patriarchy), Classism (materialism), and the wound of Individualism was really helpful. And I just want to thank Deran for the clarity and joy of her spirit. <3

  • I really appreciated the specific examples of how legacy burdens show up and additional perspectives of addressing inter-generational trauma. This is an area that isn’t spoken about enough! This work is so important and enjoyed how thorough this presentation was. Thanks Deran

  • Thank you for this presentation. I can feel legacy burdens and collective trauma in the Greek culture, mainly associated with poverty and individualism.

  • Thank you so much Deran Young, I have really learned so much, the 6 fs, the concept of legacy burden, and your amazing definition of DENIAL and SHAME.
    I am listening from Gombe state northeast Nigeria

  • Wish the Australian Dep. Education would watch such important informative presentations. Wonderful, thanks so much for sharing.

  • This session was amazing, thank you so much. The video was so upsetting to see the children answer this way but it shows how influenced children are by us and their environment, really enlightening.

  • Love that you bring up legacy burdens and self compassion. Being on the Diversity, Equity and Inclusion committee has been so eye opening for this and the conversations are so wonderful to have. Thank you for speaking about all of these topics 🌿

  • ‘My strongest weakness – being strong’ … mmm.

    A really beautiful, inspiring and so necessary talk. wow.
    The exercise with the children was so so sad to watch :(. Legacy burdens; ‘dishonest harmony’; emotional poverty; privilege… so many takeaways from this! And the acronyms! 🙂 Thankyou so much

  • Thank you, Deran! I like your approach, it’s thought-provoking and yet you deliver the presentation with lots of kindness and compassion. I’m now highly motivated to learn more about legacy burdens and collective trauma. Thank you!

  • I’m so glad I went back and watched this video from yesterday- Deran is so down to earth and I loved how she wove in her own personal journey as she spoke about legacy burdens and how IFS and a compassionate approach can help the healing process. Loved the easy to remember acronyms, too! Deran is very inspirational- thank you for this!

  • I absolutely love this seminar and it provided additional insights to the family system and how we are impacted daily. I appreciate you reminding us that legacy burdens are real and so automatic. I’m so grateful for your voice. Thank you.

  • This seminar helped me to gain curiosity of the different parts of myself and to be compassionate towards those parts. I now can understand that these parts surfaced to help me survive. This will help me to recognize different legacy burdens within myself and when helping my clients. Thank you for your eye opening seminar.

  • If we believe we are connected in our humanity, we are connected in our healing. Loved that, and this intro to legacy burdens. Thank you Deran!

  • Excellent presentation; Very practical. Collective legacy burden resonate with me and employing compassion on myself is the key to reach others.

  • As a Native American survived of the Indian School. Invisibility is big for me and for many years being referred as other. We decided to address our community in our traditional and spiritual ceremonial ways for healing.

    • It’s gratifying to see more and more indigenous communities drawing on well-established, traditional knowledge to help individuals and whole communities heal.

  • Thank you for this video. Being brought up in the early 1960’s, a chocolate brown girl, in white suburban New England, I can relate to that doll study. I identified as “white” until I was called the N-word in elementary school. How eye opening, the information that you shared. Life changing! Thank you!

  • It helped to hear that all these parts, even the one that denies my dark skin are welcomed and there to protect me. Thank you for important video.

  • Great talk Deran! I learned so much today. I appreciate all you do. Black Therapist Rock was pivotal in my private practice journey as a young therapist. Thank you for your service!

  • I really enjoyed her presentation on IFS. I am kind of new to it. I do have the book, No Bad Parts. I love her broad approach especially the 4 legacy burdens. most therapists do not include those. Great work, Great sharing! Thank you so much…..

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