Pauline, Scotland

Hi guys I’m interested in the transmission of multigenerational trauma in three generations of my family and how it has resulted in my alienation from all of my family members who love me but can’t or won’t talk with me for no stated reason other than the feelings that get triggered when they come anywhere near me. I believe talking about me binds them together as a group of individuals who obviously have a problem with me but can’t talk about it with me. This is really heartbreaking for me because I believe that if they could talk with me they would discover that what they are involved in is nonsense that seems to have a life of it’s own and this dynamic seems to be playing havoc in what could be an otherwise loving family. I don’t believe I have any problem with giving empathy and compassion for them but it’s having empathy and compassion for myself that has been lacking. I am hoping to learn from this summit and thank you in advance.
Love
Pauline